I have made progress!
Sticking with the 19v HP laptop power supply measurements of 9v battery are accurate and steady. It may vary 0.01 of a volt.
Going back to the 500 ohm resistor method
I tried physically distancing the Shelly from the power supply and shielding it in a metal box and these made no difference.
My breakthrough is in powering it with a 18v cordless drill lithium ion battery. Steady readings!! No fluctuations and behaves as it should.
So the 2 totally different power supplies 19.5 and 12v both introduce severe noise affecting measurements but only when the pressure sensor is in circuit. BTW The sensor has always been a couple of meters away inside the tank.
So I have a way forward. I can look further at using separate power supplies or somehow suppressing the noise. No access to an oscilloscope so guessing a bit!
Thanks for the help!