Same here. Try switching off the relay with no lights on. That's where my Shelly stops responding with button type "detached". There's another thread where a user reports that the Shelly bypass may cause issues with irresponsive Shellys. He bought a bypass from another vendor and is happy now ...
I saw that thread about the other bypass. Interesting.
My Shelly ran all week without any problems. Unfortunately, though, I made two changes: latest firmware and switching to "detached" mode. So hard to say what fixed it, but I'm ok withe either.
Since it's managed to work without any hiccups for the week, I'll probably be buying a bunch more Shelly's switches including bypasses. I tested the Shelly bypass and it wasn't overheating like some others mentioned, I wonder if that depends on how clean/stable the electricity is on a particular circuit. Happy to upgrade to another bypass that, if I understand correctly, can handle more power variance, if required.